Shy and timid children and " mama's boy " .

August 12, 2017 17:51 | Problems Of Infancy


first child in a family that did not have a chance to play with other children, in the age of two may allow other children to select at toys and strongly pushed around.He just does not understand what is happening, and with tears running complaining mother.It can disturb your father and mother.In most cases, this behavior is temporary and due to the lack of experience of communication.If such a child will always play with other children, it is likely that in a few months he will learn to be angry and to assert their rights.On the part of the mother would be wiser not to show too much concern or sympathy for the child does not win his battle, not to tell him that he should share with others, but simply to offer to go and take away his toy.

The second and third child in the family rarely have such problems, probably because they are already in a year has to stand up for their rights.

If a child is too warlike, who constantly insults you and your becoming more timid, more reasonable to take him away to a

nother place, at least for a couple of months;where he will have more opportunities to become braver.

If after three or four years the child is not able to give the date, it is necessary to consult a child psychiatrist and try to figure out what was wrong.

Father can throw a fit if his two year old son prefers to play with dolls and doll prams.But anxiety is still too early.At this age the child still does not distinguish between male and female employment, three years in most cases already shown preference for employment based on sex, and to the four priority it becomes even more noticeable.For a boy of three or four years is quite natural part of the time to play with the girls, especially if there is no one hundred boys age, but if you play in the family, the boy would prefer to play the role of a father or son.

If the boy in three-four-five years, afraid to play with the boys, and prefers to spend time with his mother or with the girls, he's probably afraid to be a boy and needs help.He needs a friendly relationship with his father.Sometimes the mother takes care of her son too, a single step without releasing it away from you.

biting children.At one year of age for the baby naturally bite mom on the cheek.Cutting teeth make it all the time want to bite, and when he gets tired, want to bite harder.I do not think to worry if a child between the year and two bites another friendly or angry.

After two or two and a half years, it all depends on how often does a child bites, and how it behaves in other ways.If he is generally satisfied and sociable, but sometimes in the fights bites, it does not matter.But if most of the time he is nervous or feels unhappy if unjustly biting other children, it is a sign of something wrong.Maybe the house commanded them too, constantly lecturing, and he is always so tense.Maybe he has not had a chance to get used to other children, and it is they seem to him dangerous and threatening.Maybe he was jealous to any child at home and brings fear and jealousy of all children, as if they, too, of his rivals.If the case is more complex, and the reason is unclear, should seek help from a child psychiatrist.

Some mothers who bites a child, ask if they want to bite back.Mother will keep better control of the child, if it is to lead a friendly and indulgent, and not go down to his level, bites, shouting and fighting.In addition, if you bite and spank-year-old baby, he will take it as a game or a fight, and wants to continue.And if you just look at him reproachfully, he gets mad at you.You need only do not give the baby to bite you again;when you notice a suspicious gleam in his eyes, move and clearly let him know that you do not like it, and should no longer be repeated.