Incubation lasts for a child eighteen months nine months nine months inside and outside the mother .

June 06, 2016 23:00 | Courtship Care

Understand carrying a baby in a bag will be easier if you imagine that childbearing last eighteen months - nine months inside, and at least nine more months outside.In the first nine months of the uterus surrounding the child adjusts all its systems automatically.Birth temporarily disrupts this organized system.However, the sooner the child will get outside help in the regulation of these systems, the more easily it adapts to the mysterious world outside the womb.By extending the stay in the womb, which bears a child in a bag mother (or father) provides an external regulatory system that balances the chaotic and irregular child.Imagine how this adjusting system.Parent rhythmic walking, for example (which the child sensed the rhythm for nine months) reminds the child of a temporary stay in the womb.This familiar rhythm, imprinted in the child's brain is still in the womb, it is now once again appears in the "external womb" and calms the child.Mother's heart, delicious regular and familiar, reminds baby so

unds he heard in the womb, when he puts his ear to the breast.As another biological control, the child feels the parent rhythmic breathing when she wears its belly to belly, chest to chest.Simply put, regular parental rhythms have a stabilizing effect on the child's confused rhythms.

Another way in which the mother carries out regulatory action, - a stimulation of the child's developing body regulating vital functions of hormones.Researchers have shown that if a mother and child are inseparable for a long time, like when wearing the bag, it helps to ensure that the child will begin to distinguish between night and day.They believe that the presence of the mother has a regulating effect on the production of adrenal hormones that cause sleep at night and wakefulness during the day provide.

Mother's voice, which, when worn in a bag child hears constantly adjusts the limb movements of the child.In a study conducted in 1974, the analysis of the video the child's body movements, when his mother talked to him, showed that the baby moved perfectly in sync intonation of maternal speech, when she spoke to him on his unique children's language.These synchronous movement did not arise in response to someone else's voice.In general, maternal rhythmic movements and speech "teach" a child to make their movements more than rhythm, suppressing normal for newborns

irregularity, lack of coordination, and purposeless movements.

Wearing the bag has a beneficial impact on the vestibular apparatus of the child.This apparatus presented organs located behind both ears, helps a person to keep your body in balance.For example, if you lean too much to one side, the vestibular apparatus will signal to you that you should deviate in the opposite direction, so as not to lose your balance.This device resembles a tiny three levels, which are used in the work carpenters, one of which is located so as to control a lateral balance, and the other - moving the body up and down, and the third - back and forth.These "levels" operate together to retain the body in equilibrium.When the baby wears, it moves in all three planes.Each time the child's body changes position, the liquid contained in these devices, moves to the tiny hairs resembling fibers which vibrate and sending nerve impulses to the muscles of the child to keep his body balance.Before the birth of a child is very sensitive vestibular system, which is constantly stimulated, because the fetus is in constant motion.Wearing baby in a bag "reminds" him of movement and balance that brought him pleasure

in the uterus, as well as give them a sequel.

What can happen if the child is lucky enough to have a solid contact with the mother, and he spends most of his time lying horizontally in a crib and gets attention only when it is necessary to feed and soothe, and then again left without a mother?A newborn has an innate desire for organization, in addition to adapt to his new surroundings.If you give the child to himself, without the frequent presence of the mother, the child may develop disorganized patterns of behavior: colicky, crying restless, abrupt jerking motion, chaotic attempts to lull himself alone, anxious thumb sucking, irregular breathing and sleep disorders.A child who is forced to adjust the time before all of its own system, spends a lot of energy for complacency, spending the valuable energy that could be used for growth and development.

manifestation of anxiety and disorganized behavior are symptoms of withdrawal in itself - the result of the loss of regulatory effects, which gives attachment to the mother.Children should not be left alone so that they are trained and become themselves dampers, sometimes advise parents.This detached approach to the implementation of child care, and contrary to common

sense, and experience, and research.Studies of the behavior repeatedly argued that babies are a bit more nervous and disorganized in the absence of the mother.Although there are many theories of child rearing, all researchers loving care of the child agree on one thing: that the child develop emotionally, intellectually, and physiologically optimal well, you need a permanent presence of the mother is in the bag when worn, to implement the necessary regulatory influence.