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August 12, 2017 17:51 | Miscellaneous About Parenting


Before the war he lived in the village Zayukovo boy who lost his parents early and still did not feel an orphan: the care of Nurbi assumed Murzabek grandfather.From his grandson he heard ancient legends.Nurbi loved the music of his native language Kabardian, reached for reading, from grandfather hand received the first book.

Was at Uncle Nurbi Harabi.In 1942 he graduated from high school and, together with his classmates went to the front.His book on parting gave well-read for his age (at the time Nurbi finished third grade) nephew:. "Take care of my grandfather and the book"

boy thought briefly left his uncle, smash the fascists and come home.But in the village broke the enemy.They burned down the house.Nurbi remembered how burned presented books uncle.Something managed to save - at night Nurbi dug the book under an apple tree.

Now Nurbi Hudinovich Zhilyaev - a teacher of Russian language and literature of the 4th secondary school of the village Zayukovo Kabardino-Balkar ASSR.All

his life he collected books.And for twenty years, opened the door of the teacher Zhilyaeva home for all the villagers, who love to read.Saved once the book became the basis of the name Harabi Zhilyaeva public library.The fund - a few thousand volumes.

many years going in the house Zhilyaeva young villagers.We helped them to his teacher and to collect materials for local history book, on which he worked.

happens to Nurbi Hudinovichu book lovers come from other areas, and everyone gets a good host board - experienced bookworm, hear the word of warm hostess Taisiya Moiseevna - it is also a teacher.Master began and brought up in the house of the daughter of the very Harabi, whose name was given to the library, - Rose.

passed through the school of education of all children of the book Ji lyaevyh: Arsen, Madina, Ruslan.Schoolchildren helped parents prepare catalogs, card index, bind books, attracted to the work of their peers, participate in the creation of a regional museum in his native village.And the museum for many years was, incidentally, also in the house Zhilyaeva.Now, the village council has allocated a special room for him.

Zhilyaev all have a sense of unity with our multinational culture.Here's how to write a school essay Madina: "My dad - Kabardian, mother - an Ossetian.At the girlfriend's father - Tatar, mother - Russian.In Dushanbe, he lives another friend, whose father - Tajik, his mother - an Ossetian.Each of us knows two or three languages, but write to us in Russian, because really love this language and consider it their native language.If you ask me what nationality I proudly answer: "Soviet»

L. Chubarov, Moscow


tell you all about it, and you will understand why I undertook to write about it ...From another city came to visit me a fourteen year old niece.Learn it in eighth grade and even a music school.I really wanted to buy her records.Bought.I asked her:

- Do you listen to Natasha, radio, because the program has a lot of interesting music, and other gear for you?

Natasha said that the houses have no radio.I was very surprised, and she explained to me that they have stereokombayn, but it is rarely included.How is it - deny the right of the teenager at his age interlocutor?

Then I realized that many families do not keep in the apartment of an ordinary loudspeaker.This, in my opinion, great impoverishes the lives of children ... to miss an opportunity to introduce a young child to the mother tongue, with the correct speech, to hear stories and poems performed by masters of the word.Of course, technology is advancing, there were stereo processors, tape recorders, video recorders, but the radio still has not lost its importance for children and adults.

N. Eremicheva Moscow

SONG educate

I was always very worried that I can not give their children more time and attention than we would like.Of course, we read them fairy tales, poems, watching cartoons, go to the puppet theater.But this is rare.And the children of different ages, in the interests of: daughter five years old, the son of the third year.

And quite unexpectedly for myself, I made a small opening, found the interest that united the two children.Recently, we began to sing bedtime songs.First it was the lullaby, then unconsciously I began to sing their "adult".At first they only listened, then began to sing along with me.Especially liked them "Eaglet", "Victory Day", "Alyosha", "The village Kryukovo", "On the Don Cossack walking young."

What's interesting - the kids not only sing and listen, but also asked to explain the meaning of a word, or even events.Son, for example, asks what war, Homeland.My daughter wants to know how the Soviet troops drove the Nazis out of our land, released to other countries.

I sing and tell the children about the heroism of Soviet soldiers, of all people, the courage and persistence, the need to protect their homeland.That is not to build a house, do not raise a child, not to feed the hungry without peace.And much more.After all, there is such an event, which would not affect the song.I realized that the song - a source of knowledge and feelings, and while the kids are drawn to the song, we must not miss the opportunity to expand their horizons.I believe that these knowledge are valuable and that is based on emotion, pass through the heart.And again, I brought together the songs with the guys.

O. Khodakovskaya, Khmelnitsky


... In this family, like to listen to the song "Blue Scarf" by Claudia Shulzhenko.This is a favorite record grandfather, a veteran of World War II.In the words of the song he listens and granddaughter, "Grandfather Song" sinks into the soul ...

... During a trip to Leningrad father brought his son to Piskarevsky.He told how many years someone brought candy at the boy's grave, who died during the siege of hunger: the death of a boy in front of delirious candy.The son was shocked by this, history.Terrible face of war suddenly revealed to him.

Present the younger generation has grown up under a peaceful sky.But children need to know about the war.Our memory - this curse the war, because the war linked the destruction, suffering, and death.We must pass on to our children hatred of war, respect for those who defended peace on earth.

children live feelings.Therefore, we must strive to ensure that all children will learn that war, worried about them, causing empathy.Then we can count on the fact that children will understand and share the feelings of the people who survived the war.

B. cuprite, teacher, Ryazan

Playing in the tale

I want to share one of his idea - at home with the kids can be arranged theater.I was helped in this case.

Once in our house suddenly turned off the light.Children were playing in the room, I was in the kitchen, but ran to him.I can not see anything, even scary.She took the flashlight turned on - all the more fun.Dima glad grabbed him and began to jump.And I have escaped by itself: "Suddenly a small mosquito flies, and in his hand a small flashlight lit ..." my boys are very fond of this book KI Chukovsky known poems by heart.

- Let's - I suggested - Lena (s four years) will Fly, Dima (he was six) - mosquitoes, and I - Spider.

And our Fly found money, bought a samovar,

invited us for tea.Here we are with Dima was in turn the "tarakashechkami" then "bukashechkami".There was also a beautiful butterfly, which regaled and treated, and she flirted, turned away ...

Played us the tale.Already there was light, but the children need, "Mal, come on from the start!" That's how we started accidentally actors.The game is a fairy tale is very loved by children.

On another occasion, the children have themselves come up with something of their own, so much so ingenious!"And if - I thought, - plain sew costumes but think of the scenery, the fantasy of how to earn more!»

L. Volodin, Perm

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I sixth decade, and I have two cute grandsonnine and eleven years.Once while on vacation, I decided to introduce them to the world of art.In a city where they live, work and drama theater and a puppet.But indifferent to them boys.Then I asked them to be spectators and actors, to arrange his puppet theater.For a long time we were preparing the dolls.Grandchildren have learned a lot: molded, sewn, painted, built.And we learned a lot.

parents, coming from work, they were glad, and also included in our affairs.In the evening we were spectators.How they laughed like applauding at our performances!

His next holiday I spend with my grandchildren again.We have a new game ...

V. Dushkin, Stupino, Moscow region

PASSION Divide the children

many years Valeriy Krekshino, military, collected papers of different times.His home collection of over three and a half thousand exhibits.Presented newspaper publication of the Revolution and the Civil War, the Great Patriotic War and the postwar period.

Like every true collector, Valeriy always willing to share their knowledge, joy findings and discoveries with others.At these meetings, the most attentive and appreciative audience are children.That children have put Valeriy the idea to create a 147-th school in Kharkov, where learning daughters, Pioneer Printing Museum.Beginning of a long and persistent search for the first issues of "Pioneers of the truth", "Young Leninist", "Zorka", "Pioneer".If you look at where the exhibits sent, we can safely say that the school museum helped create the whole country.

Thanks Valeriy guys gained access to the interesting case, and at the same time have become active subscribers and readers pioneer of newspapers and magazines.

S. Abarbarchuk, Kiev


We have two children.Alenka moved into ninth grade, Dima - in the fourth.Alenka fifth year already engaged in ballroom dance ensemble.His enthusiasm infected and younger brother."Horizon" Ensemble at the Palace of Culture "Metallist" they go together.

First we were treated to the employment of children without enthusiasm.Considered: the case - and well.But, faced with a close team work, we evaluated the beneficial effects of dance on children.Children become Collect, organize, tightened externally and internally, we began to appreciate and save time.

Now our children are not threatened by lack of exercise.In ballroom dancing to a variety of physical exercise is added and positive emotional charge: beautiful music, plastic movements.And the most amazing thing - children work in the ensemble up a sweat is not because they are forced to, but simply want to make their own special expression - such as it is necessary.The guys love their team mates happy successful performance, cheer each other, learn not to lose heart, to endure setbacks and achieve victory.

Constant communication both boys and girls during the dance also beneficial for children: girls held with dignity, boys chivalrous watch over them.It dances taught our son some manners.Dima always gives way to a woman at the exit of the transport arm takes the mother, sister, classmate.

We share with the children the trouble of excitement associated with competitive performances of the ensemble: here and preparation of costumes, and charges before the trip, and many other concerns.Contacts are being established, strengthened our relationship with the children.It's very important ...

Family Sukachev, Kharkiv

the son DOG

Son has long asked to take a puppy in the house.But I flatly refused him, referred to the neighbors, convinced that the dog needs a complex care.If honestly, the whole thing was in me since my childhood I felt hostility, even aversion to dogs and cats.I have been told that they - the source of dirt, infection.And there is nothing I could not help myself.

One day, returning from the delivery of correspondence (son and daughter, high school students, help me in my work at the post office), the son took out a tiny mesh Kutenkov.Enthusiastically I began to tell: the driver was driving at high speed, but noticed on the carriageway road puppy, slowed down, and saved his life.I could not argue against the wishes of her son thrown to help little creature.

And the children devotedly caring for the groomsman, willingly and easily climb at night to change his bedding, feed him from a bottle.I see that it is - true compassion and genuine concern.Pal Without my children's lives would be much poorer.I look at the happy face of his son.How long he walked to his happiness!At my son's fault waiting for this day for eight years ...

MA with a tio n a, Tashkent

LOVE FOR Orlov trotter

During the war, in 1942, our Kemerovo Region were taken Oryoltrotters.With difficulty they have placed in unsuitable premises.And the next year, despite the difficult times, to Orlov handsome built good stables.The horses were so good that they admired everything from small to large.Especially boys.They helped take care of an adult horse.

Now bursting more than two hundred Orlov trotters.They contain their families.Opened a small equestrian section where children are taught to ride a horse.For classes and gained even horses Budennovskaya breed.Students themselves are harvested feed, restoring order in the stables, care for horses.

The Kazakh folk epic sung by the legendary nickname horse Tulpar - winged.Tulparov Don and ancient Akhal-Teke breed is grown on Lugovskoy stud in Zhambyl region.The plant that was created half a century ago on the initiative of Marshal Budenny.And what's interesting - in youth school at stud happy fathers bring their sons to learn the art of riding.They dream to see them dashing, brave riders.

N. Nawrocki, Kemerovo region