" I you will never marry ! " Try to understand !

August 12, 2017 17:51 | Beauty Woman

He tells you compliments.Gives flowers.Whispers of "I Love ...".But do not rush to choose curtains for your shared home.He never did not marry you.And not because he is the Pope.He has another title - the eternal bachelor.At the beginning of a love story it is quite difficult to guess how it ends: marriage proposal, or the phrase "Let's be friends."However, there is a certain category of men, about whom you can say in advance that on the beautiful courtship they will not do.All of these gourmet who prefer to eat my passport, but would not hear Mendelssohn's march, can be divided into five categories.

Kazakova. about him usually say: "pomatrosil and throw."Or, "Do not talk to him about the wedding - just run away."He - a real collector.And you are just another of his "sweet little thing."He is courteous with all his women, gallant, smiling, easy to talk to.How is Bulgakov?"Let them send Behemoth, it is charming."Long-term relationship with him is possible, if not pay attention to it and do their own thi

ng.He left there are several such permanent friends, and always (!) Any third-party Masha with bated breath waiting for his happiness.And so can wait a lifetime.

Why?Only vanity may prompt you to say the words, spoken by almost every his girlfriend: "He will be with me completely different."Do not become.He will exchange you on a regular girlfriend.And not because it is better, but because it is newer.Casanova psychologically work out a relationship built on a sense of novelty.

And suddenly!Casanova, even in wedding suit - quite questionable acquisition.He will never forget about the other ladies for your sake alone.And never give up to make sure that among those others, his chances are still high.And you will fight with all these women a variety of menus and crisp sheets.But still a lot of competitors - young, beautiful, affordable and not so weary struggle - will be a lifetime breathing down your neck.

Mama's Boy. Mama's Boy of the day can not live without her that his own.Asked to spend a weekend together every time answers that Mamula promised to be with her.And if suddenly you yourself make him an offer, frightened whimper: "I can not, Mom will not let me."Mom it really does not allow to marry.No, it certainly does not put an ultimatum: "The registry office - over my dead body!" (Although this is not such a rarity).It just tells horror stories about how insidious flirt ohmuryayut innocent boys, depriving them of their apartments, money, peace of mind and - horror of horrors!- Communication with parents.She persistently develops in his son the fear of girls, becoming an expert on the female for him.Eventually, he begins to believe firmly that only the mother, the only one of all the women he really needed.And she pleased.As they say, the Oedipus complex, Oedipus is not - the main thing that Mom liked.

Why?It is foolish to ask this guy question: "Why, why did you not marry me?" He just does not know what to answer you.Sverhopeka Mom did not give him the opportunity to become a grown man, able to take decisions.So he just planted his hands: "I do not know.So my mother said, and she knows better. "It should be noted that such a helpless baby it is quite satisfied.After all, it is thanks to her he is released from all obligations, has the freedom and time.He's from morning to evening is cut in computer games or watching television lying, gobbling homemade cakes.Career growth is not it especially attracts.And jealous of everything, even to work, my mother does not welcome excessive workaholism.Sexual needs it meets in non-permanent links, which are often tolerated and even approved - it is necessary synochku somewhere relieving stress.But more or less serious relationships with girls vigilant mother nipped in the bud.

And suddenly!Of course, in communion with the mama's boy has its own charm - because he, more than anyone else, is able to understand women.And the chance that it still will go to the altar there.This usually happens when he loses his mother or when she starts she need care.Are you willing to wait so many years?But even if you manage to become the wife of this type much earlier - you know what awaits you.Firstly, Mom will always be the main authority for him, the oracle and a teacher.Secondly, in the case of conflict between you and your mother in law, and conflicts with you, "a slut, and hysterical's annexation", necessarily - the husband will clearly understand who is more important to him.He will never be on your side.Not now, not after you give birth to his three children.However, children need it least.After all, even calling the head of the family, the role of the child he intends to retain.

Free Bird. Another type of eternal bachelors - man, wincing at the word "die."Although the stamp - it's just kind of printing paper business, any mention of it causes such a man uncontrolled feelings of fear.To verify this, come quite up behind him and quietly say: "I want to die."No matter what, and where.But he will not ask.When a woman utters a word, he loses the power of speech.

Why?Gamofobiya (fear of marriage) is not necessarily caused by children's complex.Rather, it is a kind of spirit of freedom, which was formed in his youth, which took place among experienced men.These tough soldiers who do not know the words of love, most of all cherish their independence.However, they assured that if you want each of them can even marry his entire team in rhythmic gymnastics.What woman, in their opinion, does not dream of the eagle to catch and twist it with the family nest?But the Eagles - free bird!And God forbid them to contact with chickens, who only know how that lisp: "Musik, ready gusik" tearful and watch soap operas.No pasaran!Cheers "That's a real man - yet none of it is not zahomutat!" Are considered to be among the highest praise of superheroes.But all this is not so much the strength and weakness.After all, a threat can be a woman to this man?

What if?Chance to obtain a certificate of marriage with such a man you have almost none.Although he, unlike other eternal bachelor is able to enter into a serious relationship with a woman to share her living space and even have kids.That is to consist in what is called a civil marriage, but with a clean passport.(Verily, man's logic is incomprehensible!) That's just whether you want a lifetime to be witness to how the question of your friends, "So when are you finally get married?"The father of your children will be the thousandth time to wince:" Oh no, this I still was not enough »

iceberg in the ocean!. Representative of this type of bachelors psychologists call intimofobom.The relationship with him is always beautiful start.They have a place and a timid confessions and half-forgotten poems from the school curriculum, and vows: "Darling, I'll give you a star!" But all this romance never goes into the next phase - a close, trusting relationship.Intimofob not believe in loyalty and friendship.And no your not tender it will melt the icy heart.As soon as he feels that he starts to get attached to the girl, then immediately escapes.The average intimofob well educated, financially secure good.However, their lovers to spend money in no hurry - still have to leave because, what the extra costs?Only the stars and promises.And in such a situation you really more likely to become a captain of a starship than his lawful wife.

Why?To find out the reasons for his emotional coldness - a completely thankless occupation.Fix it you still would not do it.And do not convince yourself that this man inside Bubble feelings he hides under the mask of indifference.Nothing he does not hide.He is afraid of no feelings at all.Intimofob likes to prove to others that he just has not met the one, the only.But it seems that she did not meet him ever.

He initially unsure of himself and afraid of the alleged pain that can bring him real intimacy.Therefore, it is much easier and safer to keep you at a distance.

And suddenly!No "suddenly"!You have two choices: to run away from all the feet, until he broke your heart, or stay and try to get the greatest possible pleasure.Running should be, if you do not have time to unpromising relationships.But if you are satisfied with short-term passion - this option is quite amiss.A couple of weekends.

Creator. He believes in his genius.First, he plays in a rock band, then writing a novel, which is designed to immortalize his name, then is sent to wander in the world and, having reached the North Pole by dog ​​sled, eventually realizes that his main mission - to paint in the spirit of Van Gogh.He can not stand routine.Gordo says that is not able to sit at work from nine to six.He prefers to schedule a free artist that is working according to the principle: "And whenever you want."It is easy and even fall in love with a virtuoso.But it has never lived with a girl under the same roof, preferring to remain for her mysterious stranger.He likes to be alone, often disappears for a while, explaining that quiet family haven - not for him.

Why?Creator simply can not sit at home and talk with his wife on the subject, it would be good to start saving for a new refrigerator.All of this abhorrent nature of his aestheticism.As an addict, he needs constant shake, delivering kicks Care-parishes, jealousy, duel, all-consuming fire of love.And after the wedding, as it seems, the couple used the fire of love only to fry potatoes.

And suddenly!Do not bring the Lord!Even if in a fit of passion, he suddenly turns to you in the registry office, in the best case, you will become number three in the list of his values ​​in life.Saying he would be only about himself and his work.This extreme egoist will not want to adjust to someone and to complicate his bohemian existence.With him you will connect only one thing: you will both be in love with him.However, he soon finds himself on the side of a new muse - his wife, walk around the apartment in slippers, in his opinion, the muse, in principle, can not be.In this "criminal" context, he will receive the necessary dose of emotional doping.And your duty is humbly accept his disappearance, alcoholism and chronic complaints of the fact that no one understands his talent.